The Best Ways to Utilize Your Coach

Coaching is an easy job when you love what you do–but it’s still work too. Here’s the godly way to make the most of your time with and without your coach so that you get what you need from them and so they aren’t feeling ambushed at all times of the day and night.

Get used to scheduling a session when you want to flesh out some ideas or run a thought past them. Any coach worth their salt is always reading, attending webinars and gathering current information and strategies for their clients as well as coaching other clients. Don’t believe that just because they are a coach that they’re always available. They may love working with you, but their time is extremely valuable.

Coaches love to know that you value what they do (there’s that word “value” again). Make sure that you’ve exhausted all of their printed and downloadable tools first. There’s nothing worse than paying a few hundred dollars for a session, when the information you really needed was right within reach in a $9 audio download. Once you bulk up on their existing tools, your session time with them just became that much more valuable.

Make sure you’ve done the last thing your coach told you to do before reaching out to them again. Many people want to grab onto and hoard the information that a coach knows without implementing it. Coaching is about execution, but it’s about accountability too. If you’re not going to honor the instructions and assignments your coach is giving you then you’ll never see the results–that’s not their fault. Don’t just have them pouring out, show them that you actually “get it” and DO THE WORK!

Don’t fish for coaching tips, tricks or instructions via Facebook inbox, Messenger or email. If you are saving up for a session or are in between session, start creating a list of questions that you’d like to ask and then book a legitimate session. This shows that you respect the fact that your coach sets fees for a reason and that you understand that for their practice/business to run smoothly they work with a schedule. Coaching is as much about relationship as it is getting information. Unless you need clarity on a set of instructions or want to share some wonderful news with them, inbox, Messenger and email may not be the most beneficial ways to communicate and get feedback.

Remember you want to utilize your coach, but you don’t want to ruin the mentor/mentee or coach/client relationship in the process.

The Making of a Perfect Partnership

Partnerships aren’t for the shy. They are for the innovative and the risk takers!

Many times people back away from the idea of a potential partnerships because they’ve heard the horror stories of partnerships gone wrong like:

The Sears collaboration with the Kardashians. It went wrong because the Kardashian Collection clothing line never really took off and somewhere around 2015 Sears drastically slashed prices and quietly stopped promoting the brand. Many fashion bloggers (self included) weren’t very impressed with the quality or the style of the clothing and couldn’t imagine the sisters wearing anything they were selling. For me personally Sears just has such an appliance feel and isn’t somewhere I’d think to go to snag the next “hot” fashion item.

Facebook Creator Mark Zuckerberg and (off the masthead) Co-Creator of Facebook Eduardo Severin were a messy pairing and an even worse partnership. While Zuckerberg worked on the product end of Facebook and Severin was assigned the task of working on the business side of the start up–communication and lack of mutual vision is what was ultimately the downfall of this duo. From Severin freezing Facebook’s bank account to Zuckerberg reducing Severin’s shares in the company to a minuscule amount and having him redacted from the company’s history–it didn’t matter that they met at Harvard–they both ended up on court telling their sides of the story, although Severin swears there are no hard feelings.

Ionic Breeze and Sharper Image created a partnership from hell. I loved The Sharper Image brand. For me it said quality, unique and a bit pricy. In an article on UpCounsel it says, “The Sharper Image was at the top of the retail market in the mid-1990s. Its products were seen on celebrities, in movies, and just about everywhere else. However, it was the company’s partnership with straight-to-infomercial product Ionic Breeze that doomed it to failure. After joining forces, the company found out that Ionic Breeze not only didn’t purify the air, as the fast-talking media men claimed – but that it actually polluted the air. Many costly lawsuits followed, which sucked the Sharper Image dry. The company went out of business in 2008, forever relegated to the dark corners of business nostalgia.” They closed all physical stores in 2008 and sold online. In 2017 they returned with a temporary pop up store–hopefully breathing life back into a top tier brand.

But there are some partnerships that are quite whimsical. For instance, on a flight to Chicago a couple months back I was introduced to my new favorite snack. It’s a maple flavored cookie from a company called Byrd–that is thin and crisp and quite tasty. It was an in flight snack provided by United Airlines and recently replaced another very popular snack. This was not only a great little way to thank passengers for flying United, but a really awesome way to introduce them to a new brand or one they aren’t familiar with.

The reality is that thousands of people start new businesses each day, month, year and a partnership is a great way to grow a brand and synergistic momentum. Melanie Trepanier, brand manager for SierraSil Health Inc., says that brands join forces “to leverage each other’s expertise in order to build a unique experience for their customers.”

I’d like provide a few takeaways for those considering a partnership:

  • Make it more than just about money–make it about vision, make it about helping people, make it about changing the world.
  • Know the history of your partner and/or their brand. Partnerships will only ever work if both parties are transparent and have clearly defined goals and expectations.
  • Communication is KEY to success partnerships–always keep the lines of communication open–wide open and schedule meetings often.
  • Make sure you have a nearly defined decision-making process and an overall structure or SOP (standard operating procedure) for your partnership.
  • As a potential partner make sure you’re bringing something to the table of equal value i.e your social media platform to their product or brand buzz.

Inc. Magazine published an article that shares “6 Ways to Spot a Bad Business Partner” and Forbes wrote an article titled, “Why Partnership is Harder than Marriage.” Entrepreneur followed suit with a piece titled, “Why Partnerships are the Kiss of Death.” Nevertheless, don’t overlook potential partnerships because you fear losing control of what you’ve built. Look at the big picture and always weigh the cons as well as the pros.

Self-Publishing Versus Traditional Publishing Which Is Best?

As a published author I’m constantly asked which is best when it comes to Self-Publishing versus Traditional Publishing and my answer is always the same, it’s a matter of preference. I know, that’s not the answer you were looking for. But follow what I’m saying because whether you decide to go the Self-Publishing route or the Traditional Publishing route there are still Pros and Cons to each.

Traditional Publishing Pros

  • Absolutely no out of pocket cost
  • You get a WIDE “established” distribution network for your book
  • The established distribution leads to more exposure even for an unknown author
  • Almost all traditional publishers offer an advance
  • The traditional publishers have an in house Editor and team for editing, cover design and formatting
  • Traditional publishers normally have an in house PR person to set up book signings and get the word out to the press
  • You could end up a newbie author catapulted to mid-list fame or nominated for an award (maybe)

Traditional Publishing Cons

  • Most traditional publishers want you to have an agent even prior to consideration
  • It can take over a year and a half after the signed contract for your book to hit bookstores
  • Unless your agent can negotiate differently you’ll normally have no say over cover design
  • Oftentimes the marketing and promotion of your book is limited to 1-3 months after release date
  • Traditional publishers pay royalties to their authors twice per year and that’s it
  • After an author’s initial advance royalties on a trade paperback book is on average 6%
  • If authors don’t earn back their advance they normally won’t be offered another book contract

Sidenote: In some cases with contracts if you are given an advance and don’t deliver the book you can be sued and forced to pay back an advance, yes, even after you’ve spent it.

Self-Publishing Pros

  • As an author you won’t have to wait a year to see your book on shelves
  • You don’t have to find an agent
  • You don’t have to find a publisher and send endless queries
  • You get paid once a month instead of twice a year like traditional publishers
  • As an author you are in control of the editing, formatting and cover design
  • By publishing yourself you get a better royalty rate than 6% per copy with a traditional publisher
  • If a mainstream publisher wants to pick up your book later on, you’re not tied to a contract

Sidenote: There’s be quite the upswing with authors hoping to be the next Amanda Hocking. She became a millionaire self-publishing on Kindle. While this isn’t the norm, perhaps it isn’t totally a fluke either.

Self Publishing Cons

  • Unlike traditional publisher you foot the entire bill
  • Distribution and exposure can be limited especially if you don’t understand the ins and outs of the business
  • No advance from a traditional publisher
  • You have to hit the streets and promote, promote, promote
  • You’ll end up fighting for shelf space with authors from traditional publishers and small presses too
  • YOU ARE quality control. Typos and anything that doesn’t make sense is on YOU
  • Wrestling payments from bookstores who have sold you book (this is actually a PRO if they ever pay you)

Whichever route you decide to take remember, don’t base your decision on not having the money to self-publish and wanting someone else to foot the entire bill on your book. After all, it’s YOUR story, you have to want to invest in you too. Also, don’t let the hype of a very lucrative six-figure book deal that some author got once upon a time bait you either. Bowker reported that in 2012 there were “3,500 books published each day in the US.” That means nowadays authors have to put in WORK to get noticed! If you’re not willing to work don’t publish a book. Publish because you love it. I hope that helps!

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RECOMMENDED READING:

The Savvy Author’s Manual
Self Publishing Manual by Dan Poynter
Platform: Get Noticed In a Noisy World by Michael Hyatt
Sell Your Book Like Wildfire by Rob Eagar
1001 Ways to Market Your Book by John Kremer